Sep 17, 2008

Ass: the new face....


I have thought that the beauty of a person begins with the eyes, their smile , their heart. But that is no longer what many men consider as the beauty of a woman. Many, many men rarely get to look into the eyes of a woman and accept her inner beauty that her outer beauty accentuates. They choose a more southern gauge of what is the beauty of a woman... HER BOOTY.

I will never fathom why the ass is all many men choose to use as to why the will or will not be with a woman. To each it's own. But to be honest with you, if more males wouldn't be so shallow about who they think deserve their time, attention or sperm, we might not have as many unwanted children , and a willingness to blame a woman's lack of wise choices on why he is in a bad situation with that woman.

I fail to see why two lumps of flesh as a reason to lose good judgement and make a path and life of destructive choices for others to blame on. A fat ass has caused men to choose a woman who cannot keep house, bathe , or take care of children. A fat ass has gotten men taken to jail, the hospital, and to lose his original family, and even his life. I fail to see a fat ass as worth it.

I see the beauty in a beautifully shaped woman. But rarely do thoughts of fidelity, love, or responsibility of the person who possesses the ass, cross the minds of men. Rare are the thoughts of she has a nice ass, what other qualities do this person have that I can add to my qualities and we can grow together.

See ass, I want to have sex with it.




Of course the times dictate how people react. When men looked at how WELL a woman dressed and carried herself, females went out of their way to wear nice coordinated fashions, makeup and hairstyles to attract the eye of the males. As time passed it became how short can you get your clothes, and then the minis came back, then how tight can you get it .. and the leather clothes and tight body suits came in...


Then came this era. The STRIPPER era....



Where the less you wear the more attention you get. Any given day you can see butt cheeks, breasts, and even some coochie if they bend over a Lil, at that is at church. You see picture after picture on the net of young and sometimes even older women squatting down, or turned backwards in the stripper poses, as if to say, I am ass, hear me no more. Her voice as a woman is gone when she trades in her self respect and esteem for a man picking her because her ass is fat. (stomach must be flat as well for some males to pay any attention)


It is like women have become a sum of their body parts. Females are letting them degrade them down to the flaps on their backside, and the pit between their thighs. Females complain about wanting respect yet time after time if a camera flashes the female has turned backside forward.


Or her body is cocked in some stripper worthy pose that even a preacher couldn't respect her if he saw her.






I say at some point, females need to have more respect for themselves than to think their ass is the best thing going for themselves. Why even want a man that is only interested in you because he saw your ass. You wearing too small clothes, and putting your ass in his face every time he blinks.... no wonder he sleeps with you and he is done... he took what you gave him... a bunch of ass.

Like one young man at a football game I attended said..."Could you sit cho ass down, so I can see the game!!?!"

We have Got to do better.

2 comments:

  1. "I will never fathom why the ass is all many men choose to use as to why the will or will not be with a woman. But to be honest with you, if more males wouldn't be so shallow about who they think deserve their time, attention or sperm, we might not have as many unwanted children , and a willingness to blame a woman's lack of wise choices on why he is in a bad situation with that woman."

    No disrespect here but this phrase is like saying if women didn't open their legs to as many people as they do then there wouldn't be as many single parents out there. Let's be clear. There are many women that will go to a club, use a fake name, and go home with someone that they just met. There are even more women that leave their 6 year olds at home at night just to kick it with a man. It's not right to place all blame on the man here. And if he wants to see strippers then learn the reasons why. Ask him. It might be as simple as he wants to clear his head from the bills and the woman that is constantly spending money that they don't have at home. It doesn't matter how fine she is at home, if the communication is jacked up then her sexiness isn't on a man's mind. Put on the shoes for a moment and think of good looking men that you might've dated in the past. Did you marry ever good looking man that you dated? Why not?

    I don't believe in paying women for sexual services. It's a wast of money for me. However, those women are sometimes great at convo and usually great at taking a man's mind off of the world outside of the doors. The man might go home and the lights are off because somebody forgot to pay the bill or he finds that she charged a $300 dress when they only had $200 to last them for 2 more weeks. Bottomline, find out why the man is attracted to that. Many more reasons that I won't mention right now.

    Last...Normally people that state they don't see what people get out of two lumps of meat might not have a booty that people are fond of. People that have that outstanding feature just use it to their advantage.

    Again, no disrespect. I see statements like this quite a bit and women are often turning their noses up at people that have the shapes by calling them out of their names. Ask yourself what it is about men that attracts you to them. That answer is a personal choice.

    Tieuel Legacy! aka The Devil's Devil's Advocate

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  2. You obviously didn't READ this with an open mind. It isn't about blame it is about responsibility. I CLEARLY stated for the women to do better, but I see you only saw what was said about the men. It is a two way street, no matter how much you wish to blame loose morals on women... they are not loose alone. So if you are looking for a sympathetic post about how women allow men to defile them... you won't get it here... women lower their standards and there is always some male there to help. To me that is a two way street.

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