Babies Aren't Stupid....

Baby and Father in the Crib together! @ Yahoo! Video

Baby Loves Fleetwood Mac @ Yahoo! Video

Billiard Baby @ Yahoo! Video

Funniest cry baby ever @ Yahoo! Video

The Bama Blog Stocking Stuffer Giveaway

1-XBOX Batman/Pure Game
1-Microsoft 1GB Flash Drive
3- XBOX live free memberships/ Beatles plus AVATAR shirt

Over $100 in value!!


Plus!!! FREE!!!
Taylor Swift Guitar Hero Guitar faceplates
7- Sony/XBOX
1-Wii
Let me know if you want one!!!

Okay I want to give something away to the few readers that I have. I see you lurking... and I would like to let you know I appreciate you all.... give me one paragraph about the wackiest Christmas that you have ever had. The funniest one will win the Stocking Stuffer package and be posted for all the readers to enjoy (if you don't mind)!! Happy Holidays from Bettyboopbbw69!!

email me at  bettyboopbbw69@gmail.com

....From the Mouth of Males

 
I recently asked a group of males ranging in ages from 18-33 about why they don't date. The resounding answer: HOES. Now only one actually said the word hoe, the rest had answers ranging from, why buy the cow plause, or the 10 women for every man, or some other dumb theory that hasn't been proven, but males take like it is straight from the mouth of God as to why they don't date.

One man said that he doesn't mind dating, but when he tries, the women act so loose. I asked him what did he mean. He gave me this example. He stated he liked this one female at work and had decided he was going to holla at her. He said for a few weeks he just hit on her lightly by speaking, and making small talk, but nothing major, just feeling her out. He said one day he just went for the gusto and asked her to a movie. She accepted and they went to see a movie and then out to eat.


He said they had good conversation, but every other sentence went directly to sex or some sort of sexual content and he just allowed her to talk. Although he is not mad at her for talking about sexual content, it became a bit much when she would brag about her past sexual conquests on their first date. It just changed the date from, will I see this female on a regular, to this female is hot,  and ready to be filet. She talked herself out of possible dating zone to the hoe zone in a matter of one damn date.

Another case was when one of the males said that his date decided to cook for him at her home. While this could have been a nice respectable date, that could have lead to them getting to know more about each other, he said he got hit on every other minute. If she wasn't pawing all over him, she was hinting at what she could do to him sexually. As a male, he said he obliged, and then lost all interest.

Third situation was the worst. This female played the game of "I don't want a man, we can just be friends", while exhibiting ALL the signs that she wants a man. She repeatedly made sure he knew she is not some loose broad that will do anything for male attention, he felt like he had been read his rights. She spent the better of the evening bragging about her independence, yet everything a society says a man should do on a date, she wanted. Although she asked HIM out, (but she don't want a man) She made him pay for dinner. She wanted her door opened, seat pulled out, and to be introduced as his date. Now he said that wasn't a problem, because his momma raised him right, but the attitude and weird looks if he didn't do something fast enough was where he found the problem. To make a long story short, Sistah Souljer of I don't need nobody, NEEDED him for every dadgum thing. The independent thing was a big front. He stated that her desperation for companionship was so strong it was blinding and uncomfortable. Well to end the evening, she gave him fellatio. (might take some of you a minute to catch that)  Then called him repeatedly in the following weeks till he had to change his number.

So overall it seems that nowadays the actions of many females make it hard for females that wish to be courted and treated like a lady. Now I am not saying men can use this as an excuse as to not date women in the proper fashion. I am just saying a lot of females make it really easy to get to the mountaintop without going by way of the valley.  If you are feeding men, buying them expensive things, giving up the nookie, and playing house with them, they are more inclined to accept the gifts and STILL be kicking it with other females.



It is like a chain reaction that was set off that no one knows how it started. A kind of which came first chicken or the egg type scenario. Instead of working on intelligence, class, social stature, their heart and other virtues, women dress skimpier and skimpier to attract the eyes of men (and now other women).  Men on the other hand in order to attract women instead of learning how to treat a woman, court a woman, and then close the deal by making her his woman, he buys flashy jewelry, paint his car all these flashy ways, flaunt wads of money and other things that gets that female who likes those things. You use bait to trap things. It is easy and doesn't take skill. Do that for a few generations and the dating pool dries up.

See (Quality of the Dating Pool)

That is why the dating game is a bait and switch situation. Although I think there are many people out there that still date, it isn't as widespread as just hoe'in.
Now I am also not calling just females hoes, men as well can be hoes as well. Any form of this practice is in detriment to the dating pool no matter which gender practices it. But I have a whole other post planned for the males situation. Stay tuned for that one....

When your Ring Finger is a Turnstyle....

I still think that marriage can be a positive when you go into it prepared, willing to work thoughtfully with your partner, and mentally equipped to handle adversity. Having a partner with these qualities as well is also a necessity since it seems that the portion of the vows that people tend to forget it the "for worse" part. Nowadays it seems as if people assume that the for worse part is a myth. Marriage takes a lot of patience, and compromise for the greater good of the family, and also to be able to grow together as a cohesive union. Too many people nowadays get married like it is some kind of fashion accessory. Glad to show off the rings, and the wedding pictures, yet have no patience when it comes to the actual union itself.

Marriage is not about showing off the spouse that you have collected, the ring you have purchased or have been given. It is about much more. Taking marriage lightly can end in hazardous results, especially when it involves a person's emotional state, and also the sanctity of the marriage itself.  Marriage is not something you jump into because you are tired of paying bills alone, or tired of having to sleep alone in your bed. Those are reasons to get a better job, and buy a bigger pillow. Yet many use these ideals when choosing a mate. Many choices to marry are deeply rooted in the insecurities that more than likely kill the union before it starts. Yet instead of taking smart steps to clean up the cess pools that are our lives, we invite others in and destroy them right along with ourselves. How selfish and unfair to the unknowing. Selfishness has no place in a marriage, unless you are selfish in the fact that you will share your partner with no one else.

When Beyonce sang "Put a ring on it", I am sure the song didn't mean often. Yet you have some people getting married so many times so fast, that your family are getting your spouse's name wrong, the kids are scared of who the new person is that you brought home, and you are calling out the wrong name on the honeymoon. This is neither healthy or productive and most of all it isn't wise. Marriage is so serious, and to go into it lightly or in order to cover up some type of insecurity is just breathing death into the relationship even before it starts.

Can you take the time to get to know yourself and the problems you had in the last relationship before you marry the next mark? I recently saw someone who just got out of a marriage less than a year ago and is married again. No dating, no trial period, no counseling from the last shambles of a marriage she left. If this works out, it will only be because they are the same co-dependent type that feeds off of the mirror like insecurities of the other person. That may keep them together, but for all the wrong reasons. It still amazes me how people can marry like they are changing underwear.... or at least should be changing their underwear.

Another issue is when children are involved in these marriages of the moment. It sends the message to them that making wise decisions when it comes to cohabitation is not important but rather to be taken lightly like you pick what to have for dinner. With the rise of children being molested, mistreated and even abandoned by and for new spouses, this adds to the issue of how important a decision like marriage is, and how it will affect others as a whole. To get married just because someone asked and you were lonely is something that shouldn't be taken lightly. Just wait. If the person really loves you and wants to marry you, they will so after getting pre-marriage counseling, dealing with ones own issues that can destroy a marriage, and other issues that need to be resolved before a big decision such as marriage is carried through. Be smart.

In Poor Taste and Timing....

Yes this is one of my Bettyboopbbw rants, so get ready for some candidness.



Sigh. Now that the Michael the money maker is dead, NOW the brothers want to jump on the opportunity that so many television stations turned them down for in the past, a show about the Jackson brothers that people just aren't genuinely concerned about unless Michael is involved.  The only other Jackson people seem to find interest in is, Janet. But now the brothers, who for years have been trying to do Jackson Shows, Jackson hours, Jackson Specials, Jackson Anniversary, Jackson Life without Michael documentaries, NOW get some interest from the television world so they can showcase their new "Work."

As a true Jackson fan, I feel violated right now as I did when Joe Jackson was at the awards show talking about his new record label before Michael was even autopsied. Other than Rebbie, Janet, and Katherine, all the other Jackson children seem to all only shine when they have their brother Michael's name on their lips or trying to jump bandwagon from his accomplishments.

Now we have this....

What the hell is Tito looking at? Can't they take one damn photo that looks sincere and not a press picture from the 70's when the "other" Jackson brothers were still relevant. If the networks weren't studying their greasy, plastic tails back when they did the last anniversary special, OR when Jermaine Helmet head ass was trying to get an umpteenth show 20 minutes after Michael was declared dead, why in the hell did A&E succumb now to this crap. Years have went by and not one paparazzi took one picture of any of the brothers since they were trying to support their cash cow at his many court appearances. To do a show now about the brothers new music is just distasteful. All this is going to do is make everyone say, I wish Michael was still alive. The Jacksons performing without Michael is like watching someone paint without a brush.... just a mess.

As someone said on the A&E website about the show,

I know they are banking on name recognition to get this going and thats a good thing cause thats all they have. A bunch of 50 yr old men running around singing rock 'n' robin is a act of desperation. Since MJ left them out of his will they figure the cash cow is gone better get off their a** and do something.. This show will last a season maybe two and then they will fade out . I hope its sooner than later. And for those that just loved them when they were younger, I don't blame you I did too and the songs were appropriate for their age and the time but , for them to come out and sing them now is just sad. I mean REALLY SAD.......

This is in poor tastes and timing if you ask me. Joe is prolly going to slither onto the set with his belt.




Side note: the first sound you hear after the brothers graphics load up is "MICHAEL'S" voice. Why did they not use some music off of their OWN Jackson's Records that they put out? Mooching off of Michael. Period. True enough, these brothers were a part of history, but the history they are using is more geared towards Michael's demise, and his mark he left on the world, not the Jacksons.

All this is in bad taste.

Michael we love you.

Avatar: Okay I was wrong....

Okay at first I was mad that this movie has stolen the name of my beloved Avatar series, but I will be the first to say that I forgive them for doing so. Now. I am going to be one of the first at the theater to see this little diddy, by the trailers alone, I am already salivating at the storyline and visually beautiful graphics. Take a look at it with me shall we...?


Watch CBS News Videos Online

I used to go to the Club....

When I was in my early twenties the club was the place to be on Friday and Saturday. It was especially fun when you had money for a new outfit and able to get your hair and nails done too. When you know you are going to be sharp, the club was so exciting to go to. You called your friends and they all wanted to talk about how much fun it was going to be at the club.

Let me take it back a little more. All week long you have been at home practicing the new dances, and bragging about who you were going to have your dance off with , claiming your victory before you even really got the moves down packed. You just knew you were going to be cute, even if you had to keep walking back and forth to the DJ booth in order for people to see your outfit.

As time went on things began to change. The new songs they were playing became less and less. In the run of an hour you would hear the same songs with nothing new being thrown in. If you so happened to like a song that wasn't as popular as the radio exploited ones, you would get an empty dance floor during the time you wanted the high energy going so you could show off your dance moves.  The songs became more and more sexually suggestive, violent, or had no real dance quality to them. (The ones where people just stand around and chant the words)

As the club began to change, so did the people. When the people change, the purpose of the club for me changed. It seemed like more often than not, there was fights at the club. First it was the arguments/fist fights/cat fights. People would get into it, and then the club would go back to the business of selling alcohol, playing music, and feeling like a club. Then it changed.

You would see that the fights that used to be between the same sex changed into fights between opposite sexes with the same viciousness as if they were fighting their own kind. Blood, personal items, clothes strewn all over the floor, it became a den of chaos. Men were beating women to a pulp, police would come in and break the club up and shut it down. That could be frustrating if the fight that closed the club down happened after only less than a hour of you getting there. You are angry as fire because you spent over 2 hours getting ready for a club that closed 45 minutes in.

Now it seems that all the club is, is a strip show, rapper convention, and WWE with the hardware. If you don't see a lot of T&A, you are going to get some rapper thinking he in his video, or a full on gun battle with a little death mixed in. The person that gets shot is always someone that didn't have NOTHING to do with the fight to begin with. Just like you got dressed and prepared to go to the club, you have people who got dressed and prepared to come to the club and wreak havoc.


Last time I went to the club I thought I had walked into a strip club by mistake. We had females whose clothes didn't cover much, and what it did cover, became uncovered as the evening went on. We had men standing around pushing the decent females over just to get a peep at some club whore showing her new "My Daddy didn't love me as a child" Stripper moves. Just an all out handsome time I tell ya. Then dealing with the males that follow each other around the club like packs of wolves as if they are only viable in large numbers. You would think that for thugs always screaming they hate the gay lifestyle, they sure do be up under one another 24/7.

The club used to be a place to go, to dance, drink and socialize. Now it is a place that alienates men from the women, and promotes violence, cattiness, lack of individuality, and just a warehouse of uncertainty. You get overcharged to get in, get a decent drink that rarely contains the ingredients it is suppose to, and get swindled by the DJ playing the same thing you could have heard for free on the radio on the way to the club in the car.

 I used to go to the club....but what is the point?